Thoughtful Stuff


Life is an interesting thing, I used to just do all the minimum to get by, just barely doing enough school each day, procrastination was ever present, and I didn’t really feel like I was making a difference at all, which I think instilled in me an attitude of mediocrity and selfishness, which led to doing things half way, and asking what they could do for me, not what I could do for them.

I recently had the priviledge of doing something for someone else.

A friend was going through something traumatic in their life, something inside(or from above) told me I had to help, it wasn’t an option, I didn’t even know what the issue was, but I did my best to be there for them, I didn’t say much but I was there to “listen” (all of this was over instant messaging).

As it turns out, I had something similar happen in my life a year or so ago, so I knew exactly what they felt like and I was able to help them even more.

So, whats my point, as I said first off, I was living life with and attitude of mediocrity and selfishness, I had forgotten what it meant to do something whole heartily, and enjoy the feeling of a job well done.

By helping this person, I woke up to that fact that there is more to life than what I thought, I have started doing things well, not doing things just to get them out of the way, my school work has improved, my devotions with my God have been more meaningful.

If you feel like you are doing things half-way, without any heart. turn and face your Creator, then look for a friend that is grieving and stand by them.

Friends are great, you know, it gives you someone to laugh with, to share inside jokes with, to laugh at inside jokes with. Also you can be doing the most mundane task, but if you have a good friend by your side, it can be something you will remember for a long time, like, cutting down trees and making countless trips out of the woods on a three-wheeler with cut logs packed in all around you, it’ll always be a time that you can look back and say, remember when we did that… yeah, that was awesome.  Friends make everything much more enjoyable better, like going to a movie, who wants to go to a movie alone?

But some of the best things friends are for is to stand by you no matter what is happening all around you, so you can always know that you have a shoulder to lean on, or to offer a shoulder for someone else to lean on, cause at some point in life everyone will fall down and will need someone to help you back up to your feet, so that you can then return the favor when they need a helping hand, friends are there to help you along, and then for you to return the favor

A friend is someone you can stay up late with, just talking about life, whats happening in it, and what you want to happen in the future.  Relationships, friendships, recent events, inside jokes and just plain stupid stuff is all fair game when two friends are having a friend-to-friend chat. you can talk about anything to a true friend.

that’s why i’m glad I have the best friend ever!

Proverbs 18:24
A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.